Be positive!



Be positive. 

How many times have you heard this, read about it, been advised about it, and contemplated it? Probably a thousand times; is it good enough? NO

The point is how many times you have BELIEVED it, that is the KEY.

If the universe works on the law of attraction then it would be worth a try don’t you think?

We all live in tough times.  It was prophesied long before mankind came into existence that there will be a time when being positive will be hardest thing to do. Not because it is tough, but because it has long term returns. Somewhere along the journey we got so consumed by returns that we forgot the investments. You see returns are directly proportional to investments until a catastrophe changes that (any banker would vouch for it) the only difference about the investments in our existence is that it is governed by the spirit above and he does not have loopholes in its rules, they are universal.

Yet we find excuses to investment and are obsessed with returns.

How about an investment in positivity?

Consider this.  

What has thinking negative got us, more pessimism, idolatry, inaction, procrastination, resentment, frustration, etc? On the contrary thinking positive will give us hope, motivate you into dreams, action, perseverance, being pleasant, happy, and cheerful. Your feelings will then transcend into reality. Again, you could say what if it does not help. My question is what if it does. You have to be relentless, when you have spent years thinking negative, why give up on positivity in a day. Be positive for years and then tell me it does not work, are you up for the challenge?

If emotions are contagious then just maybe our positivity will cause the ripple effect to change the course of things in the world now that would be something isn’t it?

Channelize your expectations!



Expectations beget disappointments.

Really then, most often than not, disappointments are results of our expectations. There can be expectations from circumstances, people and things. 

This is good news! Something’s are in our control after-all!

Trouble starts when disappointments are accompanied by reactions. Reactions we know are always in our control.

Be careful, reactions automatically put you in the wrong. 

They lose their purpose because only the existing can be refuted, amongst conventional relations; circumstances, people and things have frivolous correlations. Hence consideration is non-existent. In those circumstances especially, expectations are futile. The sure shot way to negativity. It is a hidden ditch you have to avoid like plague. 

Only then will you be able to differentiate between the real and the surreal and transcend into the joyous existence where all the expectations you have will be from the spirit above, where every expectation of yours will be honored in abundance. Live better, live free that is the only way to be!

Waqt

Waqt har waqt nahi rehta
Waqt ka itna imtehaan na lo
Bewaqt kisi ki jaan na lo
Bewajah waqt se hairan na ho
Bematlab waqt se anjaan na raho
Yeh waqt guzar gaya to phir na aayega
Bina waqt ke kahin phir pareshaan na ho

You were busy...


Sometimes in life, we are so busy that life slips away from us. We may choose to seem busy or be really busy, the bottom line is…we take out time for the things that we really want to do and important to us no matter how busy we are.

However, sometimes while being busy we lose out on something very precious, sometimes life give us second chance to rectify things, alternatively, sometimes it gets too busy to consider!

You were busy…
I needed to talk but my friend, you were busy
A little advice to take stalk, you were busy
I did not disturb, you were busy
I did not want to interfere, you were busy
I thought I’d ask you if you had time but how could I, you were busy
I was looking for you before I closed my eyes, you were busy
I had too I could not bear the pain anymore, but you were busy
They took my body by your window, you were busy
You could see the pyre burning but you were busy
At last you got the news and your came running to the ashes
You said sorry you were busy
You voice echoed amidst the remains and it rained
The universe was crying that you were sorry you were busy
It's alright I understand you were busy!

- based on a true story

Hum...

Hum,
Khanabadosh hain, kahan ghar apna banayenge
Azaad parinde hain, ud hi jayenge
Zarra hain, par nishaan chorjayenge
Khayal hain, abhi chale jayenge
Khwaab ki tarah, beet jayenge
Jaake magar, phir bhi yaad aayenge
Moti jo gire ankhon se, to rok lena unhe
Aas paas hi honge, bas nazar nahi aayenge!

kyon?

"jo teri raahguzar nahi mussafir,
wahan gharonde banata kyon hai...
jahan teri qadar nahi
wahan mehfil sajata kyon hai...
jahan zubaan bani charagar

wahan khud ko bandhwata kyon hai...
jahan oochi deewarein ho
wahan khud ko dafnata kyon hai...
ja ud ja...challa chal us manzir ki aur...
jahan bas tu aur khuda ho...
wahi bas tere saath hai,
usi se tu sharmata kyon hai"

Do Manzar!


palat ke dekho zara
yahan do manzar baste hai
ek hasee ke naam pe
bas kaseede kaste hai
doosri aur pareshaan hoke bhi
bas dil khol ke haste hai
ek ore oonchi deewarein hai
magar dil bade saste hai
dujee taraf hoslon ko cheerte
bade sakht raste hai
ek ore sukoon ke liye
sab bada taraste hai
doosri aur takleef mein bhi
sukoon ke badal baraste hai
tarakki ki keemat ae nedaan tune kya chukai
sab mil gaya magar raat ko neend nahi aayi

Let's talk about LOVE


Everyone needs to be loved.

Love is a discovery. However, like all discoveries it requires time and effort, with short term goals taking over everything else, alas! This can only be a topic of discussion!!!

I agree sometimes you find out af
ter years of discovery that it wasn't worth it at all, however, the journey is never always bad, it has good moments that give us memories of a lifetime, and the bad ones that teach unforgettable lessons. If everyone would just forget everything and love, this world would be better place. Really, do we decide to be with someone these days because we love them, or we often mistake whatever it is for love. The truth is if it isn’t love then it will fizzle out sooner or later. How come people in yesteryears didn't have too much trouble with love, because love for them was not an option but everything, the only priority in life? Love, an eternal emotion may just have got restricted to hallmark cards these days!!! ***SIGHS***

I wish people would just love and see the meaning of life unravel. They
forget that getting into a relation is easy, it is maintaining it that requires effort, and somehow we stop making the effort when required. It is like a game; once you win the prize you dump in the closet forgetting that the prize requires maintenance to keep it shining; by maintenance I do not mean material paraphernalia but commitment to nurturing

Love is all about "giving" it does not matter who gives, trouble starts when we start counting the gives and the takes and add percentages to it. If we all give 100% then receiving is only natural, if you do not receive from one person, believe that there is someone out there from whom you will. When God can love the billions of people across the world without any conditions, is it possible for us not to receive love? It is just a matter of time, spread the love and watch the miracle manifest itself, before you know it and much more than you can ever imagine.

We really need to get over this debate between men and women, who loves more or less. Both are like the wheels of a car. The wheels on both sides have to function at the same efficiency for the car to maintain balance and give years of performance. If either of them malfunctions then the car will always be out of balance, neither can function without each other. If men and women accept this harmony we would have long running cars (err relationships). I know it is a queer example, however, I just thought it would get the point across clearly.

Every morning a masterpiece was created by nature in varied colors and hues.  Artists and Graphics wizards spend hours in trying to blend the shades of colors, get the right strokes and effects, however, with flowers and unknown mysterious artist seems to have mastered every stroke to perfection. 

Here are some of the symphonies close to my heart.

 















Dealing with accusations.

Come to think of it, when the relation is real, even what you call accusations are taken lightly....when it is just a charade even the best words are taken in the wrong sense. Also you should enjoy accusation I'll tell you why, because there are very few who make objective, thought over and genuine accusations, most often than not people accuse you because it makes then feel right in controversial situations and it is their defense when they know they are wrong. Hence, it is for you to decide, whether the relation is worth keeping. If you think it is not, let them go, end it now before it becomes "nasoor". If you think it is worth keeping just be quiet for sometime and they sort it out, things will work out.