Everyone needs to be loved.
Love is a discovery. However, like
all discoveries it requires time and effort, with short term goals taking over
everything else, alas! This can only be a topic of discussion!!!
I agree sometimes you find out after years of discovery that it wasn't worth it at all, however, the journey is never always bad, it has good moments that give us memories of a lifetime, and the bad ones that teach unforgettable lessons. If everyone would just forget everything and love, this world would be better place. Really, do we decide to be with someone these days because we love them, or we often mistake whatever it is for love. The truth is if it isn’t love then it will fizzle out sooner or later. How come people in yesteryears didn't have too much trouble with love, because love for them was not an option but everything, the only priority in life? Love, an eternal emotion may just have got restricted to hallmark cards these days!!! ***SIGHS***
I agree sometimes you find out after years of discovery that it wasn't worth it at all, however, the journey is never always bad, it has good moments that give us memories of a lifetime, and the bad ones that teach unforgettable lessons. If everyone would just forget everything and love, this world would be better place. Really, do we decide to be with someone these days because we love them, or we often mistake whatever it is for love. The truth is if it isn’t love then it will fizzle out sooner or later. How come people in yesteryears didn't have too much trouble with love, because love for them was not an option but everything, the only priority in life? Love, an eternal emotion may just have got restricted to hallmark cards these days!!! ***SIGHS***
I wish people would just love and see the meaning of life unravel. They forget that getting into a relation is easy, it is maintaining it that requires effort, and somehow we stop making the effort when required. It is like a game; once you win the prize you dump in the closet forgetting that the prize requires maintenance to keep it shining; by maintenance I do not mean material paraphernalia but commitment to nurturing
Love is all about "giving" it does not matter who gives, trouble starts when we start counting the gives and the takes and add percentages to it. If we all give 100% then receiving is only natural, if you do not receive from one person, believe that there is someone out there from whom you will. When God can love the billions of people across the world without any conditions, is it possible for us not to receive love? It is just a matter of time, spread the love and watch the miracle manifest itself, before you know it and much more than you can ever imagine.
We really need to get over this debate between men and women, who loves more or less. Both are like the wheels of a car. The wheels on both sides have to function at the same efficiency for the car to maintain balance and give years of performance. If either of them malfunctions then the car will always be out of balance, neither can function without each other. If men and women accept this harmony we would have long running cars (err relationships). I know it is a queer example, however, I just thought it would get the point across clearly.
